This is the title I chose for my personal blog, which is meant to give me an outlet for one of my favorite crafts – writing – plus to use an image from my favorite sport, golf. Out of college, my first job was as a reporter for the Daily Astorian in Astoria, Oregon, and I went on from there to practice writing in all of my professional positions, including as press secretary in Washington, D.C. for a Democrat Congressman from Oregon (Les AuCoin), as an Oregon state government manager in Salem and Portland, as press secretary for Oregon’s last Republican governor (Vic Atiyeh), and as a private sector lobbyist. This blog also allows me to link another favorite pastime – politics and the art of developing public policy – to what I write. I could have called this blog “Middle Ground,” for that is what I long for in both politics and golf. The middle ground is often where the best public policy decisions lie. And it is where you want to be on a golf course.
On this Fathers’ Day, I remember my father.
And the memories are ALL positive, a gift in a day when some sons and daughters may not retain such memories.
I toyed with writing something else on this Fathers’ Day, but doing so would not have been appropriate. Better to reflect on what Fathers’ Day means to me.
A few specifics regarding my father:
- He was ALWAYS there for me. He had four other children, but he found time to invest in all of us.
- He always expressed love for our Mom.
- He expressed his faith in God every day. He accepted Christ’s free gift of salvation and encouraged us to do the same.
- He made commitment to church critical for all of us. But, not church for its own sake; church as an expression of love for God.
Today, about 15 years after his death, I remember my father fondly every day. I miss him!
And, I only hope I can have some of the qualities of my father as I love my son and my daughter and their families. They deserve my best.